Drama Triangle

Download the Drama Triangle, a one-page PDF that describes a raw map of ego (I refer to this in some of my sessions). For a more elegant model, go to my Enneagram page.

A Glimpse of Awakening audiobook

I recorded this audiobook to help you to consciously experience a state where your heart is wide open and your mind is silent and in awe. This is not about instant enlightenment – it is a first step. Perhaps your first conscious glimpse of who you were and can be again. Find out more.

Workshops, Trainings and Retreats

For Women

Woman Within
A training for women to discover the power of who they are.

Women in Power Program
A training to help women release their inner toxic masculine (aka ‘predator’). In most cases I recommend taking the Inner Yaga first.

For Men

The Mankind Project New Warrior Training Adventure
An initiation into manhood focusing on living a purpose-filled life with accountability and integrity. For men ages 18 to 80.

Learn more about the New Warrior in your area:
The New Warrior Australia
The New Warrior New Zealand
The New Warrior Northwest (USA)
The New Warrior Canada

For Women and Men

Expand Retreats
The Internet’s Directory of Retreat Centers

Ernie Thayer
The Possible Life

Radiant Embodiment
Open up to yourself through a deep experience of your body in every moment.

Warrior Monk
Balance your outer strength and inner peace as you discover your personal spiritual path and live your life’s mission.

Honor and Freedom
Transition support, leadership and education for veterans.


For Couples

  • The Truth About Love – Patricia Love
  • Intimate Communion – David Deida
  • Facing Love Addiction: Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love – Pia Mellody
  • Breaking Free from the Victim Trap: Reclaiming Your Personal Power – Diane Zimberoff

For Men in Relationship with Women

  • How Can I Get Through to You? Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women – Terrence Real
  • I Don’t Want to Talk About It – Terrence Real

For Women in Relationship with Men

  • Dear Lover – David Deida
  • It’s a Guy Thing: An Owner’s Manual for Women – David Deida

The Enneagram

  • The Enneagram Made Easy: Discover the 9 Types of People – Renee Baron and Elizabeth Wagele
  • The Essential Enneagram: The Definitive Personality Test and Self-Discovery Guide – David N. Daniels and Virginia A. Price
  • The Enneagram: Understanding Yourself and the Others In Your Life – Helen Palmer (or any other of her books)
  • The Spiritual Dimensions of the Enneagram: Nine Faces of the Soul – Sandra Maitri
  • Facets of Unity: The Enneagram of Holy Ideas – A. H. Almaas